If there is one common question that resides in the minds and hearts and pants of men, it is this:. We want them to actually like it. We want them to be in the mood for it. After all, women are very different from men.
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Thank you for your very honest question. This is, obviously, a sensitive topic. But you might take heart in the fact it is not all that uncommon an issue among couples. In this case, it sounds like you have great respect for your wife but something is getting in the way of your enjoying physical intimacy. In other words, you have a difficulty and then bad feelings about the difficulty. Try to give yourself a break with the latter, at least. It does sound as though there is some unconscious obstacle to enjoying closeness with your wife, whom you obviously love very much.
Every relationship can go through dry spells when your partner is suddenly less interested in sex than you. It may a short-term problem related to stress at work or other issues that have driven your partner to distraction. Even more commonly, a sudden, hectic schedule—ranging from end-of-year exams to a do-or-die work deadline—can leave your partner exhausted and uninterested in anything more than sleep or a night in front of the TV. While dry spells like these are common and usually resolve on their own once things stabilize, a prolonged and unexplained disinterest in sex can be harmful to a relationship and the general well-being of both partners.
We are in our early forties with three teenage kids and our year marriage is mostly happy. On the way home my wife asked if I wanted to give it a try. I rang my mate the next day and asked if we could join in a session with them. We went to their house the next weekend and after sharing a few bottles of wine we went to their bedroom. I was kissing his wife and then having sex with her but what I was really focused on was hearing my wife enjoying herself.